Never Let A Child Control You

 

Do your children control every situation at home?

 

Do they always want things their way and not your way?

 

And if they don't get their way, nothing gets done?

 

Aha! This is certainly an issue here for you to address.

 

Acting like a child is one thing, and wanting to control is another thing.

 

It's important you know the difference as a parent.

 

Just getting the children out of your hair when they dish out nasty attitudes and laying off will do nothing for their growth.

 

The stakes are too high when it comes to your children's behaviour because it concerns their development and future.

 

To avoid a behaviour far more challenging ahead, nip a behaviour that's nasty in the bud straight away to allow the children to recognize the seriousness of their misbehaviour.

 

Sit the children down and let them know a cause of action happens when they misbehave.

 

Address and correct naughty behaviour, give clear and realistic expectations and follow through.

 

Never become a pushover for your children.🚸 Raise them without straining your authority.

 

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Put Them Through Discipline

 When you have those energetic children who kick, scream, throw things, play with food, hit, very defiant, spit on you, bite, do all sorts of unruly things to drain you, warning them alone from time to time is not going to be effective.

 

The moment you start to notice a child is becoming more challenging, put him or her through discipline instantly, so that they don't come back with more aggressive behavior.

 

Never indulge appalling behavior.

 

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Recognize What You Can't Change

"If everything is perfect in your life, you would not be learning important life lessons. Stop obsessing over things you want to improve, but are not in your control. Recognize what you can change and what you can’t and do well what you can."

~Damilola Ogunremi."

 

Happy New Year 2022!

 

New Year, inspired, motivated and uplifted YOU!⁣

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May this new beginning of 2022 start on the positives for you.⁣

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May it be healthy and safe for you.⁣

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May it be of opening doors, stepping forward and embracing the new possibilities and opportunities that are going to come your way.⁣

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May 2022 bring you new things without sorrow.⁣

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May 2022 be soooo much better for you than last year.⁣

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May it be rainbows and butterflies. ⁣

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And when LIFE happens, and there are things that are outside of your control, a TON to deal with emotionally, physically, and spiritually, may you be uplifted and encourage to show up and overcome.⁣

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May you keep fighting the FIGHT, and even have FAITH, determination and persevere when you feel rejected. ⁣

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May you IMPROVE and EVOLVE as a person who can create great new chapters in all areas of your life.⁣

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May you entreat God's favor that He may be gracious to you as you go in 2022. And may the sky open up and the sun shines brighter on your path.⁣

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2022 will not just be another year for you.⁣

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May YOU be encourage and inspire to take the action, and make the RIGHT decisions to make 2022 different for you positively.⁣

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May you have LIFE and PEACE.⁣

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I hope you enjoy this new year.⁣

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Wishing you and your family the best of 2022! 🎉⁣

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Damilola Ogunremi,⁣

Your friend, & Coach.⁣

 

 

For Mums: Golden Guidelines for Raising Excellent

 

I visited a woman in her home and was shown to the living room where I had my seat. There, I noticed a vibrant one year plus toddler running up and down giddily. Later, I and the woman had a discussion. Again, I noticed the toddler running up and down. This time around, he was using pee to decorate the room merrily. And then BOOM! He pooed!

After talking with the woman, I asked her why didn’t she give the toddler potty training early, so the child knows to head for the potty when he wants to pee or poo?

She said she tried a few times that the child won’t follow instructions. According to her, the child was too young to learn, and this was where I had a problem with her.

Some children often start later and take longer to learn to use the potty, but never say A CHILD IS TOO SMALL TO LEARN. As soon as your child starts exploring, start training them. Children are much trainable when they are much younger. Never make your child stubborn and resistant to training. 

Grab a copy of my book For Mums: Golden Guidelines for Raising Excellent today, and begin building the key factors for good success and hopeful life for your children. Order the paperback copy of the book directly from the author, WhatsApp 08170768650 or email info@drsetiquetteconsulting.com.

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Rewrite your script.

 As 2021 slowly ebb away, be in the protective mode of building your life.

 

Rewrite your script.

 

Get back to the basics of what you're trying to be in life.

 

Hold on to what is near and dear to you.

 

Take more authority, and control over the security of your spirit.

 

Release yourself from people that are behind your back pulling out the plug of your greatness and places that feel unstable and toxic. 

 

Let what is crowning you and your thoughts be growth. Things that will expand you. 

 

Become more disciplined.

 

Stop moving blindly into situations so you can enjoy more happiness with your choices.

 

Be calculated in your thoughts and actions.

 

Tap into the higher wisdom that you may receive from your team spirit.

 

Kick instability out of your life.

 

Increase your efforts to achieve your goals by doing lots of introspection on things you give your time and attention to.

 

Bring in a deeper level of creative power towards yourself. Use the resources around you and all elements. Don't slow yourself down by waiting for the big resources to arrive before you take action.

 

Spend time outdoors. Recharge yourself.

 

Keep close to those that want you to genuinely succeed. 

 

Protect yourself. Put up healthy boundaries. 

 

Stand your ground when you're being challenged. Let your no mean no. Don't go back on what you say.

 

If you're feeling overwhelmed with a never-ending to-do list, outsource your demanding business task to a virtual assistant, so you can have more time to invest in self-care and develop more ideas.

 

Be careful with who you give your energy and time. Don't be a people's pleaser basically. 

 

Build relationships that can help you increase business profit. You don't have to do it alone.

 

You're made for so much more here. You embody royalty. You're either loved or hated. When people show up as false lovers, false family or false friends in your life, don't allow them to have a negative influence over the way you think, behave or treat them. Rather, challenge them to get on your level, and protect your energy. Rewrite your script every chance you get in life. . .

 

Be the great white shark!

 

 

 

Authors' Curtilage Quote

While you may find it easy to give free rein to rage when others hurt you in profound ways, ensure you hold back for a greater cause. Otherwise, you will not be good for anything in life if you cannot forget about revenge. . .

~Damilola Ogunremi.

Photo credit: Victoria Strelka